Last Updated on March 10, 2023 by Sarah Smith
9 texts to get him chasing you
Texting is an easy way to build rapport with someone. It’s also a really effective way to show interest and show that you’re interested in them. But there’s a fine line between flirting and being needy, so here are some things you can do to make sure that doesn’t happen.
Flirt with him.
Flirting is one of the best ways to get your guy chasing you. It can be done through text or in person, and the more subtle—and creative—the better. Here are some examples:
- “I love you”
- “I think my favorite part about being with you is how easy it is for me to curl up next to your warm body on cold nights when we’re cuddled together under blankets by fireplaces instead of indoors watching TV together like most people do.”
Show off a little bit.
- It’s important to let him know you have other interests and talents besides him, but don’t overdo it. You don’t want him thinking that all you think about is him or his feelings (which will be misleading). Instead, show off some of the things that make YOU happy and make sure he knows how much FUN you have when things aren’t always so serious and stressful like with work or schoolwork! If he sees how much fun it was for YOU in order for him to feel as good about himself too then there’s no reason why any guy wouldn’t want someone like this in their life!
Make plans to hang out.
- Make plans for the future. This one’s obvious, but it’s still so important! If you know that you’re going to be spending time with each other soon, make it happen right away. You can even do this by asking him out on a date—you don’t need much more than a text message to get started (and yes, I’m serious).
- Don’t be afraid to ask him out on a date. It’s perfectly fine to ask him if he wants to hang out sometime; however, there are many times when we feel too shy or uncertain about reaching out in person because we don’t know how someone will respond or react when we do reach out and say something like: “Hey! Want some coffee?” or “Hey! What should we watch tonight?” Don’t let those fears hold you back from making great connections with people around you! If someone says no then move on—but if they say yes then go ahead and have fun together!”
Compliment him.
Complimenting the guy you like is a great way to get him chasing you. Don’t be afraid to compliment him, but don’t overdo it either!
It’s completely natural for men to be insecure about their appearance and how others perceive them. It can be difficult for them to see themselves as attractive because they’ve been told so many times that they’re not. But when we show our appreciation for someone in an honest way (by saying what we like about them), it makes us feel good inside—and that feeling can make us want more of the same thing from him too!
So if your boyfriend likes something about himself or his personality trait(s), let him know how much those things make you appreciate him: “I love how patient and considerate of other people’s feelings” or “I love how hard-working and dedicated this person is.” It doesn’t matter whether or not these statements were said directly by YOU; all that matters is that HE knows what YOU think matters most about HIM!
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Laugh with him.
If you’re laughing, he’ll be happy to know that you’re having fun together. If he’s the type of person who needs a little push to get going in the first place, then this might be your best bet: make him laugh at something silly or try something new (like sending him a funny photo).
Don’t take yourself too seriously—it’s okay if things don’t go exactly as planned! Just remember that there are no rules when it comes to flirting and making conversation with someone new; so don’t judge yourself for making mistakes along the way and don’t feel bad about being yourself around someone new.
Be yourself around him.
The first thing you should know about him is that he’s not the only one who can pick up on your cues. He might be attracted to a different kind of woman than you are, or even someone completely different from yourself. Be yourself around him—don’t try to impress him or change into someone else just because he’s around! Don’t try so hard that it comes off as fake; remember, this person is pretty smart and will notice right away if something seems off (and even if they don’t catch on right away, trust me: they will).
And don’t worry too much about being yourself around other people either—if they’re not interested in what YOU have going on inside your head then why bother trying?
Include him in inside jokes from your friends or family to make him feel like one of you..
This is a great way to show that you’re important and that he’s part of your life, which will make him want more time with you!
Text him about exciting or funny things that are going on in your life.
- Texting is a great way to stay in touch with friends and family. It’s also a great way to keep the conversation going between you and him because it offers some privacy, which can be hard when talking on the phone.
- Don’t be afraid to text him first! You never know what might happen if he sees that you have something interesting going on in your life—and it could lead into some fun dates or other activities together. Plus, giving him an idea of how much fun things are going at work or school might help him feel more comfortable meeting up with them later on down the line (if that happens).
Make sure he knows that you’re interested in his life, too..
- When it comes to flirting, the best way to get him chasing after you is by showing that you’re invested in his life too. When he tells a story about how he went camping with friends or what happened at work today, make sure to ask questions about things going on outside of work—and don’t just ask about him! Ask about their trip as well as their plans for the weekend (or longer). This will show them how much they mean to you by helping them feel more connected with the people around them.
Remember that texting isn’t everything, and try to spend time together doing things!
Remember that texting isn’t everything, and try to spend time together doing things! If you have a lot of free time, it’s always good to get out of the house and do something fun. You can go on a walk or ride bikes together, go to movies or take turns cooking dinner (I like this one).
If he doesn’t live near you right now but wants more than just text messages, try meeting up in person at least once a week—even if it’s just for coffee. This will show him that he can trust your communication style enough for him not only see himself being with someone who texts all day long but also believe that there’s more between them than just words on the screen
Conclusion
Texting is a great way to stay in touch with your friends and family, but it shouldn’t take center stage when you’re trying to get into someone else’s pants. If your guy wants you as much as you want him, he’ll do whatever it takes to make sure that happens!
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FAQ’s
What can I text a guy to make him chase me?
· I know it’s last minute, but I have an extra ticket to the game tonight and was wondering if you would like to come with me.
· I am having a great day and wanted to share that with you! What is something positive and exciting that has happened in your day?
· Who do you admire most and why?
· Why did you choose your profession?
· What are your values and morals? What are they based on?
· What is one thing that makes you laugh almost every time?
· How do you like to spend your days?
· If you could hop on a plane and go anywhere in the world, where would it be and why?
· Where was the last place you travelled that surprised you and why?
What to text him to make him obsessed?
· “7 days until I can lie beside you. Can’t wait..”
· “Are you bored? Come over”
· “Can you be my dessert tonight?”
· “Can you help me with something? I’ll make it worth your while”
· “Good night Although if we were beside each other right now, I think we won’t be sleeping”
· “Guess what I’d do if you were here with me right now”
· “I can’t show you the new underwear I bought”
· “I can’t stop thinking of how you kissed me last night I can’t get over it”
· “I had a tough day too Want a long shower with me?”
· “I like the idea of waking up beside you every day”
· “I love how you’re so confident and decisive”
· “I told my friends about you”
· “I want you”
· “I’m sore all over Can you give me a massage?”
· “I’ve been thinking of you all day Guess what I’m imagining”
· “If you were alone with me right now, what would you do to me?”
· “Is it okay if a woman made the first move with you?”
· “It was so hot last night I slept naked”
· “It’s cuddle weather”
· “Let’s skip work and just lay in bed all day tomorrow”
· “Let’s watch something scary tonight You can keep me safe and warm”
· “My coworkers are asking why I smile at work so much Can I tell them it’s because of you?”
· “My friends hate me for having you”
· “Netflix and chill?”
· “One in a million, you are”
· “What’s your favorite coffee? Just so I know what to prepare the morning after”
· “You can come over on one condition Don’t tell anyone”
· “You look hot”
· “You, me, pizza, beer, my place, tonight”
· “You’d be such a great catch”
· “You’re so hard to resist”
· “You’re so sweet Not like most men I know”
· “You’re such a manly man”
· “You’ve been on my mind all day”
· A kiss burns like 7 calories a minute, wanna work out?…”
· All I want is my mouth on you — everywhere…”
· Can’t do any work because I’m thinking of your naked body on top of my naked body — it’s very distracting…”
· Congrats. You’ve leveled up. I won’t be holding back the next time I see you. Prepare yourself”
· Did the song [insert song] always sound as good, or is it just that I’ve met you?…”
· Did you smile when you saw my name pop up on your phone just now?…”
· Dinner plans? I thought we could get a reservation…. for my bedroom..”
· Do you believe when they say it’s sexy when girls make the first move or do I show you the evidence?…”
· Do you want to know the first thing I will do when I see you?…”
· Even though we’ve been together all day, I can’t get enough of you…”
· Have you ever enacted a movie? How about we try Fifty Shades of Grey?…”
· Hey, my boyfriend is away. You wanna come?..”
· Hmm, what kind of goodnight text would it take to get you in my bed right now?…”
· I bought the sexiest underwear the other day. Maybe you should come and check them out..”
· I can’t figure out why, but I’m super-horny today. I think it’s your fault..”
· I can’t wait to be by your side again. Or would you prefer me on top?..”
· I don’t think I’ll be needing Tinder anymore because I’ve already found the guy I want to be with…”
· I fall asleep thinking of you. I wish I could fall asleep next to you..”
· I got a new bed yesterday. Want to check out if it’ll hold the two of us?..”
· I got a new mirror for the bedside. So, we could watch ourselves..”
· I had a dream about you last night, you weren’t wearing any clothes…”
· I had a really vivid dream about you last night…”
· I have Netflix on, but no one to chill with. Think you can help me out?..”
· I have no idea what I would do without you…”
· I heard there is a bomb on your subway. Your butt..”
· I just heard [insert Doja Cat song], and it describes our relationship perfectly…”
· I just read that caffeine can boost a woman’s libido. Is that why you keep inviting me for coffee?..”
· I just took some sexy pics, but it might be too much nudity for Instagram. What’d you think?..”
· I know it’s been tough for you today. I’d gladly take care of you tonight..”
· I like your clothes but I think they would look better on my floor…”
· I love it when my roommate’s gone because I don’t have to wear clothes…”
· I love wearing your shirt. It smells like last night..”
· I need a cuddle right now. Do you know anyone who might help me with that?..”
· I thank God every day that you came into my life…”
· I think I might go bikini shopping today. Mind if I send you pictures and get your opinion?..”
· I want you to get me something cute for my birthday. Nothing expensive. Simply put a bow on your head and come to me.”
· I was going to wait another day or two to text you but I can’t wait that long to talk to you…”
· I was just reminded of the time when we [insert steamy changing room sex]…”
· I was just thinking about when we first [insert the first date/kiss/experience]…”
· I was licking a popsicle and for some reason, thought of you…”
· I went shopping today for new lingerie, how about a fashion show?…”
· I wish you wouldn’t text me while I’m at work. People have begun to think of me as a psychopath because I keep smiling at nothing all the time..”
· I wish you’d stop being so hot. My coworkers keep asking me about you. It’s just so distracting.”
· I woke up today and realized that nothing could replace the empty space you leave in my bed…”
· I wondered why all those women were looking at me with lusty eyes. Then I realized, I was walking with you..”
· I’d go crazy if I get that kind of attention from women everywhere I go. I wonder how you deal with it..”
· I’ll be cooking dinner tonight and I want you for dessert…”
· I’ll be wearing heels tonight. ONLY heels..”
· I’m using my last 2% of battery to text you that I’m thinking about you…”
· I’ve been a very bad girl today. I think I need to be punished..”
· I’ve never made love in a car before. Road trip?..”
· If I could change one thing about you, it’d be your current location… right next to me…”
· If kissing is the language of love, then we have a lot to talk about…”
· It must have been tough for you waiting for me all those years…”
· It’s so cold out. Wanna come over and warm me up?..”
· Just thinking about all the things we could be doing if you were at my place right now…”
· Magic texts no man can resist…”
· My only regret is that I didn’t find you sooner…”
· Nobody gets me like you do…”
· Put me on your ‘to-do’ list…”
· So, chocolate or strawberry? Personally, I like dotted more than anything else…”
· Something is missing today. I think it’s you. In my bed.”
· Speak of the devil. I was just thinking about you..”
· Tell me what you like best about me and I’ll send you a photo of that…”
· Texts to make him miss you…”
· Thank God, we don’t work together. I’d never get anything done. I’d just constantly be talking to you.”
· There goes my concentration! Now I will think about you all the time…”
· There’s a Mewtwo at my house. You better come catch it..”
· Thinking of you before I go to sleep always gives me the best dreams…”
· We should stop texting and start seeing each other. Face to face..”
· What’s your favorite color? I’m looking for new lingerie…”
· You already know how I feel about you. Don’t you think you should do something about it?..”
· You know what’s the best thing about the distance between us, how good it feels when I’m finally with you…”
· You know, it’s a good thing you’re so [insert what you love about them] because it makes this whole long-distance thing less hard. But you’re worth these nights alone in bed..”
· You make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world…”
· You’re going to love me, I mean, the outfit I wear tonight…”
How do I make him worry about losing me?
· Be True to Yourself
· Remove His Second Option
· Don’t let him take it away from you.
· Do Not Try To Please Him Despite Your Efforts
· Change Your Look
. Hang out with your tribe and let him know you’re ready to leave.
· Reduce Your Interest Levels
· Keep Yourself Busy
· Set your priorities.
· Remind Him That He Isn’t Your Only Choice
· Remind Him of Who You Were
· Demonstrate to him that you are ready to move on.
· Stop Speaking Out About The Future
· Take a Reply Break
