Last Updated on January 5, 2023 by Sarah Smith
How To Make A Guy Regret Ghosting You?
If you’ve ever been ghosted by a guy, then you know how awful it feels. You feel betrayed and hurt and like there’s something wrong with you. But the truth is that not all guys are out to get you—sometimes they just don’t realize how important their friendship or relationship with us is. And we didn’t either until we found out via social media that he was talking on the phone with another girl while still texting me at night!
So what can we do? Well first off: don’t sweat it! If a guy ghosted me after saying he wanted to spend more time with me and make sure things were dealt with before moving forward (and then never did anything about either one of those things), I wouldn’t hold his actions against him too much; instead, I’d focus on finding ways to make myself more attractive both to others and myself so someone else doesn’t try this tactic on them as well.
That being said though: if this sounds like something you might want to avoid as well—or something else has happened in your past where someone just stopped communicating altogether without any kind of “goodbye” message whatsoever—”ghosting” type behavior even occurred—then here’s my quick rundown of what worked best for each situation:
Tell him he isn’t the only one that goes missing.
If you’re feeling like your guy has been a bit too distant lately and wants to make it up to you, here’s one way to do it:
- Tell him he isn’t the only one that goes missing. If they’re ghosting, then they are just as likely to go out of contact with someone who dates them as well. They might even feel bad about themselves if they don’t know anyone else is missing them (which could lead them back into communication).
- ‘Tell him what makes you special’ – Even though this sounds cheesy, it actually works! It will show him that there are other things about yourself worth mentioning besides how much money or status means something in your life, which will make him feel better about himself and think about those qualities more positively instead of negatively when talking about himself later down the road (if at all).
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Don’t let him get his way with you.
- Don’t let him get away with it.
- Don’t let him think he can get away with it again.
- Don’t let him think that he can treat you like this and get away with it, because I promise you, he won’t.
- And if he does? Well then I have one thing to say:
Ask to meet up after not hearing from him for a while.
If you feel the relationship is dead, and you’re not going to hear from him again, it’s time to ask for what you want.
Don’t be afraid of asking him out on a date. Don’t be afraid of asking him out on a second date. Don’t be afraid of asking him out on a third date! If he ghosted you—and I’m sure he did—it means he wasn’t interested in continuing the relationship at all (not unless he wanted something else entirely). The last thing we should do is give them any more power over our lives than they already have!
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Let him ask you why you haven’t texted him back.
If you’ve been ghosted, there’s no need to let the situation fester. Don’t take his silence as an invitation for him to disappear from your life forever. Instead, ask him why he isn’t texting you back and what’s going on with him—and don’t let him get away with it!
If someone is avoiding me then I want answers from them. It’s not always easy asking questions in relationships but once you know where things stand between two people then it can help ease tensions if there are any issues getting resolved quickly before they escalate into something worse (like conflict).
Make your life look fun and exciting on social media.
If you’re sure he’s ghosted you, it might be because he thought your life was too boring.
So, to make him regret his decision and want to come back into your arms again, do the following:
- Post pictures of fun activities on social media. This can include anything from skydiving, hiking with friends (or even just taking a stroll through the park) traveling abroad, and seeing new places. Make sure that any pictures are taken by yourself in those places—if someone else is holding the camera for you, don’t post them! You’ll just look like an amateur who doesn’t know how to take good photos t
- Post pictures of fun places you’ve been before—whether it’s loved ones’ houses or cool historical landmarks—and try not to focus too much on where exactly these places are located so as not to give away too many clues about where exactly that person lives now but not necessarily then either…just trust me when I say this will help keep things interesting between us both 😉
- Post pictures of things/people/foods etc., which make our lives seem significantly better than theirs.
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Bring up all the fun things you’ve been doing when he tries to make a move on you again.
If you’ve been ghosted, and are wondering how to get back in touch with him again, make sure that you bring up all the fun things you’ve been doing.
Make it clear that he’s missing out on your life and that he should have been there with you.
Don’t let him guilt-trip or make you feel like an idiot for not responding when he texts or calls.
Find out if he’s dating someone new before trying to talk to him again.
If you want to make sure your ex-boyfriend isn’t dating someone new, it’s important to find out if he has any new dates. This will help you figure out if he really wants to talk again and how serious the relationship is.
You can ask him directly by text or emailing him on social media (or whatever). If he doesn’t respond in a timely manner, it may mean that they’re not interested in talking anymore. If he does respond quickly, then ask him questions about the person who he was texting with and see if there are any similarities between them—this could indicate that they might be an old flame from before moving on from relationships like yours!
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Ask him how his day is every once in a while, but don’t go overboard with it.
I know you’re probably not used to hearing this, but sometimes it’s best to be a little more subtle when asking someone how their day is.
Some people are better at communicating than others and will understand if you ask them about how their day went before making a big deal out of it. However, some people might be more sensitive about it and think that asking too much information right away is inappropriate or weird. Asking him how his day was can help both parties feel better about the situation by giving them closure on the conversation they had earlier in the week.
Show up to places where he’ll be, but don’t approach him right away.
- Don’t approach him right away.
- Don’t be too obvious.
- Don’t be too eager, or too nervous, or too confident, or quiet (too talkative).
Post pictures of all the amazing times you’ve had with other people during the time that he ignored you.
Post pictures of all the amazing times you’ve had with other people during the time that he ignored you.
If he’s a guy, he’ll be jealous of all those beautiful women in your life! He’ll regret ghosting on a person who has more friends than him. This is especially true if they’re attractive and fun to hang out with. In fact, it might even make him want to start hanging around more often just because he thinks they’re so cool!
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Let him worry about where you are sometimes by pretending like you’ve forgotten to text back once in a while.
- You’re not going to text back right away.
- That’s fine! It will be a day or two before you respond, but don’t let him know that you’ve been thinking about him. He’ll probably start feeling bad and confused if he thinks that you’re ignoring his texts because of some kind of insecurity or regret. Don’t tell him anything, especially not your feelings for him (or anyone else).
- When he does finally text again, keep quiet for a few seconds until the conversation dies down. Then ask about where he’s been lately (or where he is now) and see what happens next!
Don’t take your attention off of yourself just because he wants it all directed towards him again.
If a guy ghosted you, it’s likely that he didn’t want to be your boyfriend. There are plenty of other fish in the sea who would love to date you and spend time with you, so don’t let this one get away with it!
If he has no interest in continuing the relationship or even being friends with you, then maybe he isn’t worth your time. Don’t waste any more of yours on him and don’t feel bad about yourself for ending things early because that’s what will make him regret ghosting even more so than if he had just made a decision based solely on his own feelings about how things were going between the two of them (or if he just decided at some point along the way).
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Takeaway forget about men who ghosted you; they’re not worth your time
If a guy ghosted you, don’t give him any more of your time. Don’t let him get away with it.
If he doesn’t want to be with you, then he shouldn’t be with you. If he does want to be with you and can’t commit, then perhaps he’s not the one for you! Don’t let him ruin your life or self-esteem by playing games like this one!
Conclusion
If you’re a girl who has been ghosted, I hope this article helped you understand why it happens and that it doesn’t have to break your heart. Even though nothing ever lasts forever, it’s important to remember that the person who was once in your life is still there—if only on paper. Don’t let him get away with ignoring you, because if he does, he might just make the same mistake again next time around!
