Last Updated on September 23, 2023 by Sarah Smith

Gut feeling he’s cheating no proof

My husband cheated on me with two other women, and I had a gut feeling he was cheating. But I didn’t want to accuse him without proof — or else he’d leave me and take our kids away from me. So, I did eight things:

Determine your goal.

When you’re faced with the possibility that someone is cheating on you, it can be tempting to jump into action without a plan. But before rushing out into the world and confronting them (or their partner), take time to think about what your goal should be. What do you want? What would make this situation better? If they are cheating, then they obviously don’t deserve all of these things—and if they aren’t then maybe there’s something else going on in their life that needs attention!

Make it clear to your cheating partner what you want.

While it’s important to know what you want, it’s also crucial that your partner knows as well. So, if this is a relationship of mutual respect and commitment, then set clear boundaries for your relationship. Say something like “I want all of us to be faithful” or “I expect honesty from both of us.” If they’re not willing or able to do so, then maybe the relationship isn’t worth saving after all—even though you may still love each other!

Make sure you’ve both motivated to reach the goal together.

Once you’ve determined that your partner is cheating, you need to make sure that both of you are motivated to reach the goal together.

You might be surprised how many people who find out their partners are cheating don’t want to be there anymore. They feel like they’ve been lied to and tricked into this relationship—and they want nothing more than for it all to come crashing down around them. If this sounds like something that would happen in your situation, then perhaps it’s time for some serious self-reflection before getting started on making changes in your relationship (or starting over).

Get a clear idea of what you want before you start.

You should have a clear idea of what you want before you start. If you don’t, then it will be very difficult to know if this person is giving you what he or she claims to be giving.

I went to a detective agency to confirm if my husband was cheating on me.

If this is your first time hiring a detective agency, here are some things that you should know:

• Ask for a free quote from several companies before making a decision. This will help save money in the long run because it’s easier to find cheaper options than expensive ones.
• Make sure they have experience with cheating wives and husbands so they understand what kind of questions to ask and how to go about their job correctly.
• Ask them if they offer any discounts or deals on monthly payments since this can make up for some of the upfront cost associated with hiring an expert in this field such as myself!

I asked my friends and family for advice.

You can ask your friends and family for advice on how to deal with the situation, but don’t get too much into the details of what you want to do. Instead, ask them for their thoughts on how you should proceed next. For example:

• “I have a gut feeling he’s cheating, but I have no proof that he is. What do you think? Should I confront him or wait until there’s definitive evidence? How would you handle it if it were happening in your life? Would you want someone else to tell them about it first before confronting them about their cheating behavior?”
• “How could I find out more information about this whole thing—is there some kind of sign telling me when someone is having an affair? Or am I just going crazy?”

But, I didn’t ask for their opinions about the situation.

You’re probably wondering why I didn’t ask for their opinions about the situation. Well, it’s because I wanted to be sure about what I was doing before telling them my decision. If you ask someone for an opinion on something and then make a decision based on that person’s feedback, you could end up with different results from what would have happened if you had made your own choice without any outside influence. And let’s face it: no one wants to explain themselves later when they’ve done something wrong!

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I wanted to confirm or deny my suspicions myself; not through them.

You shouldn’t rely on others to tell you how they feel about your suspicions. No one else is going to have all the facts, and even if they did, what they say won’t necessarily be true or accurate. In fact, most people will tell you what they think is best for them—not what actually happened. If that happens in your relationship, then it’s not really a relationship anymore!

If someone tells you something about their partner that makes sense for them but doesn’t fit with the way things actually work between the two of them (and especially if this person has been interacting with both of them), then go ahead and believe that person over yours because it probably isn’t even worth discussing anymore anyway…or at least not until both parties can agree upon some kind of solution together before making any assumptions or decisions based off each other’s statements alone.”

I took a strong stance about listening to myself and following my gut.

I had no proof that he was cheating, but I knew in my heart that something wasn’t right.

The best thing you can do is listen to yourself and follow your gut feeling—it’s your body, your instincts, you know better than anyone else! Trust them!

On one of my most miserable days, I tried to focus on our vows and what we had in the past.

I didn’t have proof that he was cheating but I did know that something wasn’t right because he wasn’t acting like himself anymore. So instead of focusing on the bad times during a time when we had so much love for each other, I focused on the good times we had together before everything changed.

For example, we had known each other since college and were married for three years before we had kids — we had a good foundation before having a family changed us.

• My gut feeling about his cheating was not based on anything concrete; it was just a feeling I couldn’t shake off.

The best thing I did was talk to him about it after the detectives gave me proof of his infidelity (the firm provided me with pictures and a video of my husband at different places with two women).

Your gut tells you something is wrong. That’s why you should listen to yourself, but don’t take things at face value—you need some evidence before making any decisions.

My husband confessed that he cheated on me and he decided to get professional help, so hopefully, he can change in the future.

I had a gut feeling that he was cheating, but I didn’t have proof. When my husband confessed to me that he had been unfaithful and decided to get professional help, I was so relieved. At first, it felt like I was just waiting for the other shoe to drop—that he would be angry at me for not trusting him enough or whatever else came out of his mouth—but once we began working through our issues together, things got easier.

We both have long way to go before we can trust each other again, but having someone who is willing to work on themselves makes all the difference in whether or not you can get back together with them after an affair happens (or just before).

Conclusion

I know this may seem like a long process, but trust me: it is worth it. You will get what you want, and in return, you will make your partner happy. Also, don’t forget that if he does not change his behavior, there are other ways to handle things. For example, we can always file for divorce or end our relationship completely if necessary.

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When Your Gut Instinct Tells You That You Are Being Cheated On

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