Last Updated on December 12, 2022 by Sarah Smith

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Physical signs he just slept with someone else!

The signs that your man has slept with someone else are there if you know what to look for. Some of these things might be obvious, like him taking longer showers or coming home later than usual. But others will be more subtle and harder to notice until it’s too late. If you see any of these signs in your relationship, then it’s time to call it quits on this relationship before things get nasty!

He’s asleep

The first sign that your boyfriend is sleeping with someone else is that he’s asleep. You’ll know this because he will be as quiet as a mouse, and you’ll wake up to find him gone—or worse yet, leave his side for good. If you’re lucky enough to catch him in the act (and we all are), then there should be some kind of evidence left behind: an empty bottle of wine on the countertop, or maybe even just a few pieces of clothing left lying around the house that wasn’t there before today!

His eyes are dilated

Dilated pupils are a sign of arousal, and they can be a reliable indicator of cheating. Dilation is associated with the fight or flight response, which is triggered when you’re scared or in danger. When you’re aroused and your blood pressure rises, this response causes dilated pupils—which means that dilation may play a role in why some people want to escape their current relationship.

It’s important to note that these two signs aren’t necessarily related: Your partner could have gotten hard while he was sleeping next to someone else (or even after). If this happens, there’s still no reason to worry about your relationship unless you find out what happened later!

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He’s a morning person

If you’re the type who likes to sleep in and wake up late, this is probably not going to be a big deal for you. But if your guy is more of a morning person (and he doesn’t hate your snoring), then there may be something else going on here. Morning people are often more energetic and productive than evening people—they get things done! And they tend to be better at multitasking while they’re doing whatever else it is they’re doing during their day (like having sex). Plus: They tend to have different preferences when it comes to sex!

He takes a long shower immediately after sex

If you’re in a relationship with someone and they take an unusually long shower after sex, it could mean that they’re trying to clean up the evidence (or smell). It’s also possible that he’s just taking a shower because he feels gross after having sex and needs to wash off another person. But if your partner comes home from work with smelly clothes on, or if his pillowcase smells like perfume or cologne, it could be a sign that he was with someone else last night—and maybe even while you were sleeping!

Showering can be used as a way to get rid of the evidence, such as sweat and other bodily fluids left behind during sex. If you notice that your partner is showering or bathing more often than usual, ask them why.

If they’re trying to hide evidence of cheating by taking longer showers than usual, this could indicate guilt in their actions—especially if they’ve been sweating heavily lately and yet still feel the need to freshen up before leaving the house or going out with friends!

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Everything else is business as usual

Everything else is business as usual. If he’s being nice to you, he’s probably cheating. If he’s being mean to you, he’s probably cheating. And if his behavior is normal and there aren’t any other signs of infidelity in your relationship—no matter how small or secret—then chances are that this guy has been sleeping with someone else for a while now!
He acts as if nothing happened between them (or maybe even better than before). After all the drama that comes with an affair, most people tend not to act like nothing happened once things have settled back down into their regular routine; after all: it was only last week when we were fighting about money because our new roommate stole my favorite toothbrush out of my bathroom cabinet…

He doesn’t tell you where he’s been

If your man doesn’t want to tell you where he’s been, it’s probably because he has something to hide. Maybe there was a girl at work whose shirt he wanted to see. Maybe there was a friend who needed some help with their project, and now they’re in trouble for breaking curfew. Whatever the reason, asking him about his day is not going to get you anywhere until you know what happened between them (and if it was worth keeping secret).

If your guy does tell you everything about every little thing that goes on during the day—from dropping off milk at grandma’s house all the way up through getting lost driving home from work—but still won’t give details about where he went or what happened while away from home (or maybe even when within arms reach), then chances are good that anything else said will come out sounding like something out of an episode of Scooby Doo: “We were doing fine until we got into traffic…then our car broke down…”

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His phone never rings when you’re together

If your partner has been ignoring you, it’s time to talk. Ignoring someone is the most telling sign that they’re no longer interested in being with you. If he or she is ignoring calls from family and friends, this could be a sign that he’s not interested in hearing from them either.

If he isn’t letting you know if he’ll be home tonight (or if he is), then something fishy is going on—and we’re talking about something big! Try calling him at work just to see if there’s any chance of reaching him during his shift. And don’t hesitate when sending him an email or text message: He might respond right away if the situation warrants it!

If all else fails—and we mean ALLLLL ELSE FAILS—take matters into your own hands by getting creative with some creative stalking techniques (like checking out his Facebook page). You never know what information might come up as a result of these methods, maybe even good news!

He’s being really secretive about his phone activities and whereabouts.

If your partner is being secretive about his phone activities and whereabouts, he’s probably cheating. If you catch him in an indiscreet moment, ask him what’s going on. If he doesn’t want to tell you the truth, trust your gut and find out what’s going on for yourself by sneaking into his pocket or purse while he sleeps next to you—just don’t wear any shoes that might have laces!

His texts/emails/messages have a very different tone than before.

His texts/emails/messages have a very different tone than before.
If he’s suddenly flirtier in your messages, it could be because he’s still trying to get over the person he slept with and wants to show that they’re not so special after all. If this happens frequently, consider taking a break from talking with him altogether until things calm down again (unless you’re into that kind of thing). You can always reach out later if something sparks up between the two of you again!

He says he had a rough day at work (when he usually says he had a good day)

If your partner is saying he had a rough day at work, it could be because he’s not telling you about his day. It’s also possible that he is still upset about something from earlier in the week—or maybe even last month. If this happens often enough, then it might be worth asking him what happened and why he feels so down all the time.

If this happens once or twice, we can assume that there’s no real issue here (until another incident pops up). But if it happens more than once in a row—and particularly if they’re happening while things are going well between them—then there may be something bothering our partner that needs attention!

He has scratches, hickeys, or bruises on his body.

If he has scratches, hickeys, or bruises on his body—even if they’re small and hidden by clothes—he’s probably cheating. You can’t be sure unless you ask him about it. The only way to know for sure is to ask him directly what happened when the marks were made. If he doesn’t want to tell you, then one thing is certain: He’s hiding something from you!

If your partner has been very active lately and hasn’t explained why he has these injuries (or even told anyone else), then there’s a good chance that he might have been involved in an altercation with another person recently. This could mean that someone hit him while playing sports or fighting with friends at home over some other issue between them (like sharing all their food).

His sheets and underwear are missing or elsewhere in the house

If his sheets and underwear are missing, he’s probably cheating.

If they’re elsewhere in the house, he may be hiding evidence of his infidelity.

If they’re elsewhere in the house, there could be a girlfriend or wife living with him who isn’t aware of this.

He seems to have new clothes or accessories that you didn’t see before, especially if they look expensive

If your guy has a new outfit or accessory, it could be because he just bought it. If he’s wearing something brand-new and expensive, there’s a good chance that he bought it on his own. For example:

If your man has suddenly started buying expensive watches (like Rolex), then maybe you should ask him what happened in the last few days before his new watch showed up.
Or if your man’s been wearing new shoes all of a sudden (like Gucci), then maybe you should ask him why they’re so fancy!

He smells different

It is possible that your partner has been cheating on you. The signs of a man who has cheated are as follows:

He smells different
He is less affectionate than usual, or he doesn’t reach out to you at all
You find yourself being left out of conversations and situations where there used to be plenty of talk about the two of you together (or in which both parties would have fun)

You notice an unfamiliar scent on him, such as perfume or cologne, that you didn’t buy for him

If you notice that your boyfriend has been wearing a different scent than the one he always wears, it could be for a number of reasons. He might have bought a new cologne or perfume, or perhaps his old bottle ran out and he hasn’t replaced it yet. It’s also possible that this is just how he likes to smell (he has been known to wear the same shirt every day).

If you suspect that your boyfriend has been wearing someone else’s perfume without telling you about it, there are ways for him to tell if he has been doing so:

Look at all of his other scents in comparison with this new one–if they’re similar but not identical (for example, if there are slight differences between them), then maybe he did buy something else instead of what was meant for himself.
Ask him outright if anything was swapped out while they were together–this way she knows whether her suspicions were correct.
Ask him why there are multiple bottles around town (and which ones).

There is no evidence of sex after you’ve made it with him recently

If you’re having a hard time figuring out if your new boyfriend is cheating on you, keep an eye out for a few other signs. First, check the calendar: Is it possible he hasn’t slept with anyone since things started? If so, that can be an indicator that someone else has been in his bed (and maybe even some other parts of him).

Second, take note of what he smells like—no one wants to be around sweaty socks or dog poop after sex! Once you get him into bed, notice how he feels about himself and others around him (if his mood changes). Are there any new hairstyles? Do people seem less interested in being around them now than before? Do they seem happier than usual? If yes to all three questions above means that this could mean that something is up…

He’s not as affectionate

He’s not as affectionate.
He doesn’t want to cuddle.
He doesn’t want to hold hands.
He doesn’t kiss you on the cheek or at least give a peck on the lips when greeting you in person (but if he does, it should be quick and impersonal).
You can tell by his body language that there is no desire for sex with you, even though our bodies are telling us otherwise!

He’s avoiding sex with you.

If he’s not interested in having sex with you, then it’s a good bet that he slept with someone else.
This can be difficult to swallow if you’re into the idea of sleeping with him as often as possible and he isn’t interested in doing so anymore (or at least not right now).

He has a new favorite sex position or trick he wants to try with you.

If he has a new favorite sex position or trick he wants to try with you. This can be a sign that he is trying to get his mind off of someone else. He might also be bored with your sex life and want something new and exciting!

He may also want to try something different because it’s not as fun as what they usually do together (and maybe they don’t have time for other activities).

His hair suddenly seems to look different — or less like himself.

If your guy has suddenly got a haircut, or if his hair looks different in any way, it could be because he wants to look different. Maybe he’s had a shave and now feels like an entirely new person. Or perhaps the style of his current look is no longer working for him and he needs to change something up. Whatever the case may be, it could mean that there’s someone else in his life who has given him an update on how to style himself!

If you notice anything different with your partner’s appearance (such as new clothes), this can also give you some insight into what they’re up to — especially if they seem embarrassed by how they dressed themselves up yesterday afternoon after coming home from work.

His mood is different (he seems nicer/more standoffish).

This is a sign that he’s trying to make you feel better. If your boyfriend or husband seems nicer, it could be because he wants to make sure you’re feeling better after being with someone else. He may also be trying to get back together with his ex-girlfriends so they can start over again and make their relationship work (or at least try).

If the other person was nice enough to give him sympathy sex, it’s possible that she did this because she cares about him or thinks he needs some emotional support right now. It’s likely that she didn’t want any emotional connection between them when they got intimate, but now that things have changed and there’s no longer an opportunity for one (such as after having sex), then maybe now is when she’ll come around again!

His habits are suddenly irregular.

If your partner has suddenly become more secretive and erratic, it could be because he’s cheating on you.

He may be trying to hide something from you, or distracted by something else when he sees you coming.

Or maybe he’s avoiding being around you altogether—a sure sign that something isn’t right!

Your intuition is telling you something is up.

Listening to your instincts is important. If you feel something is not right, it probably isn’t. If there’s a crack in the foundation of your relationship, then it’s time to talk about it with your partner and see how they feel about things as well.
Remember that this feeling doesn’t necessarily mean that your partner has slept with someone else—it could just be a sign that something has happened between them and their ex (or former fling) which made them question their loyalty towards you in some way or another – but even then, these types of feelings are tricky territory because sometimes we can read too much into them!

if he does any of these things, he’s probably cheating

If your partner does any of these things, he’s probably cheating on you. It’s a good idea to have a talk with him about it, and if you’re suspicious, confront him about it.

Sex with someone else can leave evidence behind but some men are clever about it and will not be super obvious that they’ve moved on to someone else

If you’ve been through a breakup and your ex has moved on to someone else, there are some physical signs that will help you know for sure.

He might be fat. Cheating men often gain weight as they lose their inhibitions while having sex with other people.
His eye bags look darker than normal. This is because he hasn’t been sleeping well and his face looks like it has been made up of two different types of paint by mistake (because if he were cheating on me, then why would I be attracted to him?).
It feels like someone punched me in the stomach when I lay down next to him at night—and it hurts! That’s because my date just had sex with someone else but didn’t tell me about it yet (this can happen many times).

Conclusion

It’s possible to leave a trail of physical signs that may seem like clues but are actually a dead giveaway that he’s been sleeping with someone else. The good news is these can be easily explained away by the way he lives his life and the fact that he’s just not as affectionate when you’re together. In any case, if you notice any changes in his behavior after sex or any strange smells or stains on his clothes then it might be worth checking up on him before you feel too bad about getting dumped. But remember cheating is never okay!

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