Last Updated on December 21, 2022 by Sarah Smith
How to please your husband?
If you’re married, chances are your man has probably told you that he loves you. But what if I told you that there’s a better way to make him happy? What if I said that all it takes is simply listening to his needs and following them? What if I said that all you need to do is treat him like the king he really is? Well, then this article would be nothing but lies! But seriously though: how can we please our husbands without knowing what makes them tick?
It’s not a big secret that men want sex, but they don’t simply want it.
They want it to be pleasing and exciting both for themselves and their partners. That’s why learning how to please your husband sexually is so important.
Many women are afraid of disappointing their husbands because they don’t know what will turn them on or make them feel good during sex. If you’re married and haven’t learned how to satisfy your man in bed yet, here are some tips:
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Stop Sex Negotiations
One of the most important things you can do to please your husband is to stop sex negotiations. When your husband asks how often you want to have sex, don’t be afraid to say no or ask for what you want. Your husband will feel good about himself when he knows that he has the power over whether or not his wife is going to get off with him—and if she does get off, it will make him feel even better!
Don’t let anyone tell you that “no” means “yes.” It doesn’t work that way: if someone says no and then changes their mind later on down the road (or even just after “no”), then there isn’t really any harm done because all parties involved know what happened behind closed doors between them two weeks ago when they first started dating/married/etcetera…
Pay Attention to His Body
It’s not just about the words you say. It’s also about body language and tone of voice. Be aware of his breathing, look into his eyes when he speaks, pay attention to his face as he speaks, and let him know that you’re listening. If a man has trouble communicating in this area, it can make him feel like he needs to talk more or be more assertive because he doesn’t know how else to express himself without coming off as creepy or weird—even if what he really wants is just an attentive listener who listens without judging him!
Don’t Talk Too Much If you’re the one who talks more than your guy, it can be hard for him to get a word in edgewise. He might feel like he doesn’t have a voice in the relationship because you dominate all conversation. If this is an issue in your relationship, try talking less and listening more so that he feels like he has a chance to speak up without being interrupted.
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Get Adventurous in Bed
It’s important to get adventurous in bed. You don’t have to be a pro at sex, but the more you try new things and push yourself outside your comfort zone, the more likely it is that your husband will enjoy it. Don’t overdo it either; if he says something feels weird or uncomfortable, stop immediately!
Make Him Feel Like a King
When you’re married, it’s important to remember that your husband isn’t just a man who has been given the task of providing for you and taking care of your physical needs. He’s also your partner in life and should be treated as such.
So how do we go about doing this? Well, there are several ways:
- Be his queen—not a slave! This means that when he walks into the room, look up at him with eyes full of admiration (and maybe even desire). Make sure all attention is on him! Don’t forget where they came from or what they did for us (especially if it was hard work). If necessary, throw yourself at his feet in order to show how much he deserves our respect; but remember: no matter how much praise/ credit/ recognition comes from others’ mouths about our husbands’ achievements/ efforts/ successes…we must always remember where these words came from first — because only then will we truly understand their meaning fully.
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Leave It to His Imagination Sometimes
If your husband wants to have sex with you, then he will. Don’t try to force it. Don’t be afraid of saying no or yes and then looking at him with puppy eyes, trying to guilt him into having sex with you. He’s not a mind reader and neither are you (unless your name is Cupid).
If he doesn’t want to have sex with you because of some physical problem or because he has another woman in his life who needs some special attention from him at that moment—then let him go!
Just because someone says “I love my wife!” does not mean that they should stay married forever and ever never complain about anything ever again ever!
Let Him See You Naked in The House
While it’s not always practical, it’s important that you let your husband see you naked. This can be done by taking off your clothes in front of him or by letting him watch some pornography with you and then having sex after. It’s a good way to get him off his feet and relax while also making sure he knows how much he means to you.
Have Sex in Different Places in the House
- Try having sex in different rooms.
- Try having sex in different places in the house.
- Try having sex in different locations outside the house.
- Try having sex in different locations inside the house.
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Know What He Wants
Knowing what he wants is important. Men are simple creatures, and they want what they want. They also love visual stimulation (aside from the obvious), so look good for him! And if you’re feeling adventurous, try touching him in a way that pleases him—it may be subtle or not so subtle at all depending on how into kinky sex your husband is (and if he isn’t).
Always Experiment in Bed (But Not Too Much)
- Don’t be afraid to try new things.
- Don’t try too many things at once.
- Don’t try something new when you are in a bad mood, or if it’s your favorite time of day (like breakfast).
- If your husband doesn’t like what you have done before, then don’t worry about trying again because there is always room for improvement!
Don’t Compare Your Husband to Someone Else or Your Past Lover(s)
Don’t compare your husband to other men.
Don’t compare your husband to your past lovers.
Don’t compare your husband to other women.
Don’t compare your husband to other people, because that’s just mean! And if you’re comparing him with yourself—well, that’s just silly and weird!
Learn how to please your man and he’ll never cheat on you.
Learning how to please your man is the key to keeping him happy in your marriage. If you can make him feel like he’s always on top of things, then he will be less likely to stray or cheat on you.
The first step is knowing what makes men tick. Here are some tips:
- Men want their wives to make them feel appreciated and special—and they want those feelings acknowledged by others as well! So don’t forget about the little things that mean so much when it comes down specifically around pleasing your husband (or any other guy). For instance, if there’s an errand or chore that needs doing but doesn’t seem like much trouble for both of you, let him know how much effort went into getting it done right away by saying something like “thank goodness I have such an awesome husband who could do anything!” This shows appreciation without seeming aggressive or demanding; it also helps show him just how good life really does feel when shared with someone else besides yourself!
More Tips:
Remember, it’s never too late to learn how to please your husband. If you want to make sure things stay hot and steamy in the bedroom, follow these tips.
1. Be the first one to say “I love you” each day, especially when he least expects it.
2. Wear lingerie that makes him feel like he’s getting lucky even if it’s just for a quickie in the bathroom.
3. Make an effort to look good, even when you don’t have time to shower or put on make-up.
4. Compliment him often and be specific about what you love about him.
5. Touch him in ways that he likes best.
6. Offer to give him a back rub.
7. Compliment him on how well he treats you and your kids.
8. Look him in the eyes when you talk to him—it makes him feel important and special.
9. Don’t be afraid to express your emotions in front of him—crying doesn’t make you weak, it shows how much you care about each other.
10. Let him know what he means to you by telling him often that you love him.
11. Don’t forget to tell him how much you appreciate all he does for you and your family.
12. Make time for him—even if it means doing something he doesn’t enjoy but that will make him happy (like taking out the trash).
13. Tell him what would make things easier for you as a mommy—he may not know unless you tell him! 14. Don’t be afraid to show affection in public places—it just shows that you’re a loving couple!
15. When you have an argument, make sure it ends in an agreement and not by just leaving each other alone; talk about what happened and why it was upsetting for both of you.
16. Don’t forget to give him compliments—he loves hearing how great he is at fixing things around the house or with your kids!
17. Show your appreciation for his help by doing something special for him such as cooking a meal or making him breakfast in bed on Sunday morning (or even Monday morning!).