Last Updated on January 11, 2023 by Sarah Smith
8 signs he only wants you for your body
If you’re in a relationship and noticing some of these signs, it could be time to consider what you might need to do about this. We’ll look at what these signs mean and how to correct them, but first, let’s go over the possible consequences if you ignore them:
He’s always looking at other girls.
If he’s always looking at other girls, it means that he isn’t interested in you. This is a sign of disrespect and a lack of commitment on his part.
His friends seem to be more interested in you than him.
If he’s not interested in your body, but his friends are.
If he seems to be more interested in getting a laugh out of one of his buddies than hanging out with you, that could be a sign that he doesn’t want to spend any more time with you than necessary. He may also be jealous of the attention being paid to someone else—or maybe even frustrated by how much time they’re spending together! Either way, if this happens frequently and consistently over time, it could mean that he’s trying to keep up appearances for himself and others so as not let down those who care about him.
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He’s not jealous of your family or friends.
If your partner is not jealous of your family or friends, then he’s only interested in you for your body. He’s not interested in the person that you are. He doesn’t care about your interests or personality—he just wants to get into bed with someone whose looks match his own.
If this sounds like something that happens to you often, then it’s time to take a step back and examine how much control over what goes on between the sheets really belongs only to one person: YOU!
He doesn’t express interest in your hobbies and interests.
If your guy doesn’t seem interested in what you do for fun, it’s probably because he isn’t. He may not be able to keep up with the latest trends or fashions, but if he doesn’t have a good understanding of who you are and what makes you tick, then there’s no way he can truly know how much time and effort went into getting where you are today.
A great example: Your husband never asks about any of your hobbies or interests; instead, he focuses on himself—and that’s fine! But if this continues over time (and especially if it starts happening more often), then something might just need to change between the two of you.
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He tells his friends how much he likes you, but he’ll avoids talking about himself.
There are a variety of reasons why a man might not want to talk about himself. It could be that he’s not interested in you, or it could be that he’s only interested in what you can do for him and how much money he can get by using you. He may also avoid talking about himself because he knows how badly his friends will judge him if they find out how much of a piece-of-shit loser he really is.
You’re the only one he talks to about what you do and how you feel.
If he’s the only person you talk to about what you do and how you feel, it is a red flag. He may be interested in your body, but he’s not interested in getting to know anything else about you.
He won’t ask where everyone is from. He won’t ask how long ago they moved here or why they left home (unless it has something to do with him). He will expect that all of these things have been discussed before, so there is no need for another conversation about them now—unless he’s trying to hide something from me!
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You see him with, and then break up with, girls all the time.
One of the most common signs that he only wants you for your body is when he sees and then breaks up with girls all the time. He’s not interested in them, but rather, it’s just another notch on his belt. If this sounds like someone you know, then take note: he’s a player.
But don’t worry! He doesn’t have to be looking at other people’s bodies exclusively because they’re simply playing the game of dating and hooking up with multiple partners at once (and vice versa). That said, if there are any red flags here—if your partner seems too eager or anxious to keep “meeting new people” after meeting each other—don’t worry; there may be something more going on here than meets the eye!
When he talks about plans for the future, it’s already long since over.
When he talks about plans for the future, it’s already long since over. He might say that he wants a vacation with you or your family, but then there will be no talk of when or where it’s going to happen because he has no interest in making any concrete plans.
If this is happening in your relationship and all you can think about is the present moment—the here and now—then that means nothing good will come from continuing down this path together.
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This could be a red flag for cheating, so don’t ignore it
If you suspect that your boyfriend is cheating and he won’t talk about it, that could be an indicator of something serious.
If he doesn’t want to talk about it, it means he’s hiding something from you or trying to keep secret what he’s doing behind your back. Either way, this is definitely not a good sign for the future.
If on the other hand, your guy does want to talk about his questionable behavior with other women—and even admits that he has been doing such things—then there might be some hope for saving this relationship yet!
it’s time to consider what you might need to do about this
- Be careful. You need to be aware of what you say and do, as well as who you trust.
- Consider what you might need to do about this situation.
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Conclusion
We hope this post has helped you realize that there are some big warning signs that your boyfriend might not be as into you as he should be. If you’re able to spot them and take action, it can make all the difference in whether or not things work out with your relationship. Remember: it’s important to remember that love isn’t always easy, so don’t expect too much from the beginning!