Last Updated on February 25, 2023 by Sarah Smith
The girl I like confessed to me with money.
I’m in love with this girl and we’ve been dating for 2 months. She’s the first person I’ve ever loved, and she confessed her feelings to me yesterday evening after school.
I don’t know how to react
I want her to like me, but I don’t want her to think that I’m interested in her or that she’s not my type. At the same time, if she tells me that she likes me and won’t go on another date with someone else (and we become a couple), then it would be weird for us both later when we’re married and have kids together—because now our kids will know about this money thing. It’s also possible that after years of being friends with no romantic attachment at all if you suddenly start dating someone who is constantly buying drinks and dinners out while they are still single themselves…that might make people feel uncomfortable around them too!
I could lie by saying something like “oh yeah? Well, I haven’t gotten paid yet so let me get back home first before I can repay but then again if she finds out later then maybe those words shouldn’t have been said in the first place–especially considering how much money was involved here already.”
I feel shocked but also hurt.
I feel shocked but also hurt. I’m rich so it doesn’t make a difference to me, but I know her family is middle-class and she probably had to save up for a while to afford this.
She’s a friend I see at school every day.
I’m a friend of hers. We’re friendly, but we don’t hang out outside of school. We just chat when we see each other and exchange pleasantries, but that’s about it.
So when she told me that she liked me—and only me—I was surprised. Not because she was my best friend, but because it seemed so out of character for her to be so forward with how much she cared about another person (me).
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I’m rich so it doesn’t make a difference to me, but I know her family is middle-class and she probably had to save up for a while to afford this.
I’m rich so it doesn’t make a difference to me, but I know her family is middle-class and she probably had to save up for a while to afford this.
I’m not sure if that makes it more or less special for her family, but I can’t help but feel like it should be special for everyone involved in this situation.
I’m worried about hurting her feelings because she was honest and upfront about what she wanted.
You’re worried about hurting her feelings because she was honest and upfront about what she wanted.
You’re worried that if you don’t give her what she wants, then the relationship will end.
You’re worried that there is no way to know if she’s telling the truth when she says “I love you,” because it could be just a game to get money from you.
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But just because she did something nice for me does not mean we have any kind of relationship, let alone the one that she wants with me.
You may be wondering, “What’s wrong with wanting to be more than friends?” Well, let’s look at it this way: if you had a friend who was in love with you but wanted to be more than friends because they were over 18 and older than you (and therefore not allowed), would that make any sense? Would it make sense for them to tell their parents that they want to date someone who is older than them? Of course not! If a person wants something so badly and has worked hard enough to get it, why would they settle for anything less?
And what about the age difference between us? The girl I like confessed herself after dating me for about six months. She told me she was going away on vacation for two weeks and asked if we could hang out before she left town—but only as friends! Afterward though, she texted me asking what time we should meet up again since she had missed seeing me since returning from her trip home last night…which means spending time together without being intimate in any way whatsoever; which means nothing except just hanging out together without having any sort of romantic feelings toward each other whatsoever…if this makes sense then congratulations! You’ve figured out where all those confusing questions came from 🙂
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She’s older than me by 3 years and honestly seems to have a more mature head on her shoulders than most of the people her age at our school, but the way she went about this is just baffling to me.
I can’t help but think that she’s older than me by three years and honestly seems to have a more mature head on her shoulders than most of the people her age at our school. The way she went about this is just baffling to me.
I’m sure you’ve heard of money-grabs before—but how many times have you actually known someone who has done it? How do they even know about it? Is there an online forum where lonely guys post their desires for girls with cash (or other valuables)? Do these women meet up in bars or parks and discuss whether they should make their move or not? Or maybe they talk over Facebook Messenger while drinking wine together at some swanky restaurant…
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I feel like there’s no way to respond that won’t hurt someone’s feelings here.
You know what? You’re right.
I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings here. That’s why I’m going over the list of things that you could say, and trying my best not to get them wrong:
- You’re not worth it.
- You’re a bad person because of how many people like this are out there who would be happy with your money instead of their own body parts (and if they aren’t happy with the latter option, then maybe this isn’t even about “you” after all).
- Let’s just be honest about our relationship now—you only liked me for my money and nothing else; if I didn’t have access to that kind of cash flow on a regular basis, then we wouldn’t be having this conversation right now at all!
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Conclusion
I guess the only thing I can say is that the girl who confessed to me with money seems like a nice person who has a good heart but maybe doesn’t realize how close she is to breaking mine.
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